Balance in the Adult Industry

Starting out in this business you do not always know how to figure out your balance. I had a lot of trouble with it until another lovely dominant friend, Madame Caramel, pointed something out. Making set times per week for everything from content creation to scheduling is the only way to do it. She is one of the most successful Mistress I know and when she gives advice it is well to take heed as she knows what she is doing. Being to host of the Femdom Ball in London is just one of the successful ventures she has taken. If you want to find her one Twitter she goes by @NubianMatriarch .

My balance took years to establish as I went through a full on burnout trying to make sure I kept everything going and worked a full time job as well. I found my balance recently doing exactly what Madame Caramel advised. One day for 2 hours I do nothing but film. I film 5 and 10 minute clips with around 3 hours fits. I decided to leave them as raw and uncut films so that the people paying for the clips see the real me.

Usually my schedule is like this:

• Monday: Alarm goes off at 07:00. I make sure to meditate on the life I want to create for about 10 minutes. Have breakfast and my caffeine. Then take just 15 minutes to check out what I have brain stormed for videos that day. 08-11:00 is purely content creation. Taking 3 outfits and filming for an hour in each one.

• Tuesday: 07:00 meditate, breakfast and caffeine. 08:00-10:00 Time to edit the footage into 10 minute clips. 11:00 to 12:00 Is the time to film my 5 minute clips if I wasn't able to break down the footage they day before. Then i schedule everything out on Manyvids, Onlyfans, Loyalfans, and Iwantclips.

• Wednesday: 07:00-09:00 I take the time to look over my analytics. Asking myself What worked this week? What content sold last week? Can I make more content for that subject? Is their something new I want to work on next week? What events do I want to go to? Why is this a good idea?

For the rest of the week I have time to socialize. And this also gives my family with Autism and ADHD time to adjust to things in a way that I can still do me.

This is the routine that actually works well for me. The rest as far as the best time to be available for live streaming just depends on what works. Right now I am really just seeing what does. Because the thing is. What works for one site may not work for another. Just like trying to figure out if blogging on this day is better than on others. Such as blogging on sites like RoyalDoms might be better than on Fetlife.

I hope this has helped you along your way to success as a spicy worker. Through time I will see what other tips I can ad along the way.

Here are some useful links from the leading ladies in this industry:

Empress CatastroV is amazing woman I met for the first time at the Femdom and later at the Sipping Club. She is a successful Pro and Lifestyle Dominatrix located in the Netherlands. She has had appearances in several international an national podcasts.

Rebecca Goodwin has made millions with her predictions on onlyfans. She knows how to captivate her audience in so many different ways. She even gets some Top Tips for OF content creators.

Madame Caramel is an Accomplished Femenprenuer, award-winning semi-retired Dominatrix, and BDSM educator. She is the owner of London Dungeon Suite, and co-owner of Bayswater Dundeon Suite and Essex Dungeon Suite. This is also the host of The Femdom Ball, and The Lisbon Femdom Retreat

Violet Doll is 2 time AVN award winning kinda retired Dominatrix Violet Doll. Her spicy content also has its on Twitter. She has so much to offer there is just too much to create here. Check her twitter.

Countess Diamond is Sew Worker of the year 2024. Located in London and Bristol. The was the lovely Microphone Announcer at my Frist Femdom Ball.

Dr. LoveJoy and also know as Femdom Therapy which if how I stumble across her humor filled content on Twitter. She has filling some of my social media scrolling with laughter and informative incite.