Helpful links for new Dommes.

A lot of new Dommes ask where they can find submissives. So I will list so places that I use personally.

Hepays: I have been using this one for some time now. It takes time to figure it out. You have so much you can choose from. The stream is like a message board. Use this with a photo and a short message. For peat’s sake Don’t sink to “Fuck you pay me.” Then you have the blog feature. This place you should use to showcase your skills. What do you have that makes you different and attractive for submissives? If you are worried about loading your account there is one other feature you should use. Oh the stream page between the menu and the main text you will find “Share on Twitter or Facebook to get free credits”. Use this to earn credits for free. You also have a “Earn Writing” link on the menu that will also help you out.

Findoms: This one also has a few things to offer. You can message finsubs here as well as post on the main page. It takes some getting used to. This is also another place you can use to show your skills via blogs. Share photos and tributes. Good luck and I hope to see you there.

FindomDiscord: I don’t really use this one for hunting subs. This place has serious rules that protect all subs. One of them is that a Dominant may not message a sub first. If you want to attract the right sub here you will have to be active in chat, post ads in the right channels and post photos. This place is much more like a community where you can really learn from other Dominants and subs as well. So I use this place to practice and share my skills.

Fetlife: This one has it’s upsides as well. Groups will be the main place to find subs. Be active and post ads that show who you are. Don’t copy someone else because it just shows you are lazy not your talents. Makes sure you post photos, blogs and detail your profile here.

Good Luck. I am sure you will enjoy yourself.

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